Menopause is often portrayed through a handful of well known symptoms like hot flashes and mood swings, but if you’re reading this, chances are you’ve already been through your fair share of surprise symptoms that no one warned you about.
Think of this as a heart to heart chat with a friend who’s been there: every odd symptom is simply your body adjusting to new hormone levels, not a reflection on you.
Keep reading to discover some of the lesser talked about menopause symptoms, and find out simple steps you can take to feel more like yourself again.
1. Irregular Periods
Your cycle may feel totally unpredictable, sometimes heavy, sometimes light, and occasionally skipping a month entirely.
Tip: Track your flow with an app or calendar so you always know what to expect.
2. Hot Flashes
Sudden waves of heat can make you break out in a sweat and feel flushed from chest to face.
Tip: Wear breathable layers and keep a handheld fan within reach.
3. Night Sweats
Like daytime hot flashes but worse, you might wake drenched and wide eyed at 3 AM.
Tip: Swap to moisture wicking sheets and keep a cold drink by your bedside.
4. Sleep Issues
Falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking too early can all become major struggles as hormones shift.
Tip: Establish a calming bedtime routine (think gentle stretching + screen free wind down).
5. Mood Swings
One minute you’re calm, the next you feel teary, irritable, or on edge, all without warning.
Tip: Pause and breathe deeply for 60 seconds whenever emotions feel overwhelming.
6. Anxiety
You may notice a creeping sense of worry or nervousness that wasn’t there before.
Tip: Try a five minute guided breathing or meditation app whenever stress spikes.
7. Depression
Persistent sadness, low motivation, or loss of joy can settle in more easily during menopause.
Tip: Schedule small daily wins, a short walk, a phone call with a friend, to boost your mood.
8. Panic Disorders
Sudden bouts of intense fear accompanied by racing heart, trembling, or dizziness can feel terrifying.
Tip: Practice grounding (5 4 3 2 1 senses exercise) to regain calm in the moment.
9. Brain Fog
Difficulty concentrating, forgetting names, or losing track of tasks becomes frustratingly common.
Tip: Use sticky notes or phone reminders for important tasks and appointments.
10. Fatigue
Even after a full night’s sleep, you may feel drained and low on energy all day.
Tip: Prioritise short, restorative breaks, five minutes of fresh air can feel surprisingly energising.
11. Headaches & Migraines
Hormone shifts can trigger more frequent or severe headaches, sometimes with nausea or light sensitivity.
Tip: Keep a hydration bottle handy and step outside for natural light every couple of hours.
12. Dizziness & Lightheadedness
You might feel unsteady or faint, especially when standing quickly or in warm rooms.
Tip: Rise slowly from sitting, and keep saltines or crackers nearby in case blood sugar dips.
13. Heart Palpitations
Your heart may flutter, pound, or skip beats even when you’re resting.
Tip: Focus on slow, deep belly breathing to soothe your nervous system.
14. Weight Gain & Bloating
Your metabolism slows down and hormones can cause fluid retention - hello muffin top and puffy belly!
Tip: Eat small, balanced meals throughout the day and drink plenty of water.
15. Nausea & Digestive Upset
You may feel queasy, bloated, or struggle with indigestion more often.
Tip: Try ginger tea or peppermint capsules after meals to soothe your stomach.
16. Vaginal Dryness & Pain During Sex
Lower estrogen thins tissues and cuts lubrication, making intercourse uncomfortable.
Tip: Use a water based lubricant and try pelvic floor stretches before intimacy.
17. Urinary Incontinence
You might leak a little when laughing, sneezing, or lifting as pelvic muscles weaken.
Tip: Do Kegel exercises daily (three sets of 10 holds) to strengthen your pelvic floor.
18. Libido Changes
Sex drive often dips as hormones shift and discomfort rises.
Tip: Communicate openly with your partner and schedule intimate time when you feel most relaxed.
19. Breast Soreness & Loss of Fullness
Breasts can feel tender one day, then flatter and less firm over time.
Tip: Wear a well fitted, supportive bra and apply cool compresses to ease tenderness.
20. Hair Loss & Thinning
You may notice more hair in your brush or widening part lines as growth slows.
Tip: Use volumising shampoos and consider gentle scalp massage to stimulate circulation.
21. Brittle Nails
Nails become weak, split easily, and may peel.
Tip: Apply a strengthening nail oil nightly and avoid harsh acetone polish removers.
22. Itchy, Dry Skin
Reduced moisture makes skin flaky, tight, and itchy.
Tip: Utilise the complete Nu Allumé skincare range.
23. Joint Pain & Stiffness
Inflammation increases and lubrication decreases, making joints ache.
Tip: Gentle stretching or low impact exercise (like walking or yoga) helps maintain mobility.
24. Osteoporosis Risk
Bone density drops faster, raising fracture risk.
Tip: Load up on calcium rich foods and ask your doctor about bone density screening.
25. Cholesterol Changes
Bad cholesterol can rise while good cholesterol drops, increasing heart risk.
Tip: Swap processed snacks for nuts, oats, and fatty fish to support healthy lipids.
26. Gum Problems
Hormone shifts can inflame gums, causing bleeding and tenderness.
Tip: Floss gently every day and see your dentist twice a year.
27. Changes in Body Odour
Your natural scent may shift or intensify as sweat glands react to hormone changes.
Tip: Choose breathable fabrics and try a gentle, aluminium free deodorant.
28. Acne & Breakouts
Adult pimples can flare up again as oil glands rev back up.
Tip: Use a salicylic acid cleanser nightly and avoid heavy creams.
29. Allergy Sensitivity
You may react more strongly to pollen, dust, or certain foods than before.
Tip: Keep windows closed during high pollen days and use a HEPA filter at home.
30. Irritability
Small annoyances can feel like major affronts when hormones are high.
Tip: Practice pausing for three deep breaths before reacting.
31. Nightmares & Vivid Dreams
Sleep disruptions can manifest as intense or unsettling dreams.
Tip: Wind down with calming music or a guided meditation before bed.
32. Menstrual Migraine Patterns
Headaches can intensify around skipped or irregular periods.
Tip: Track headache triggers and speak to your doctor about preventive medications.
33. Skin Pigmentation Changes
Dark patches or uneven tone can appear as estrogen dips.
Tip: Apply broad spectrum SPF daily and use Nu Allumé Rosella Radiance Prebiotic Serum and Postbiotic Berry Night Moisturiser.
34. Throat Tightness (Globus Sensation)
A persistent “lump” feeling in your throat can occur without any blockage.
Tip: Sip warm water slowly and practice gentle neck stretches.
35. Voice Changes
Your voice may feel hoarse or fatigued as vocal cords dry out.
Tip: Sip water frequently and hum gently to keep vocal muscles flexible.
36. Taste Changes & Burning Tongue
Foods may taste metallic, bitter, or spicy, and your tongue can sting.
Tip: Stick to cool, bland foods and chew sugar free gum to boost saliva.
37. Bowel Incontinence
Weak pelvic muscles can cause accidental leakage when you cough or laugh.
Tip: Do Kegel exercises and consider pelvic floor therapy if leaks persist.
38. Easy Bruising
Thinner skin and fragile blood vessels make bruises more common.
Tip: Protect vulnerable areas with soft padding during chores and apply arnica gel ASAP.
39. Electric Shock Sensations
Brief jolts (especially before hot flashes) feel like mini lightning bolts.
Tip: Pause, breathe slowly, and change positions gently when you feel one coming on.
40. Tingling (Paresthesia)
Pins and needles or numbness in hands, feet, or face can pop up randomly.
Tip: Stretch hourly and swap tight footwear for cushioned sneakers.
41. Tinnitus (Ringing in the Ears)
You may hear buzzing or ringing when no sound is present.
Tip: Mask sounds with white noise and practice calming breathing.
42. Phantom Smells
Smelling odours that aren’t there can be disorienting.
Tip: Light a mild-scented candle to “reset” your nose.
43. Fear of Driving
Sudden anxiety behind the wheel can make driving feel scary.
Tip: Start with short, low-traffic drives and play soothing music.
44. Heel Pain
Sharp, stabbing heel pain especially first thing in the morning, resembling plantar fasciitis.
Tip: Stretch calves nightly and roll your foot over a frozen bottle.
45. Hirsutism (Excess Hair)
New coarse hair on your chin, lip, or chest can be frustrating.
Tip: Try gentle hair removal (threading or waxing) and discuss topical treatments with your doctor if needed.